Alfreda Brown-Kelly

MEN CRY TOO

I cannot remember the first time I saw a man crying, but I do know I was an adult when it happened. From my experience, in the African American community, men are taught that it is unacceptable and inappropriate for them to cry openly.  It is perceived as a sign of weakness. They are told to, “suck it up,” and “hold the tears inside.” But, is that a reasonable request? No, it is not.  Men have feelings and emotions—just like women.  It is discriminating, unnatural and unreasonable to request that a man suppress his emotions.  Does that make them less than a man? Of course not—it makes them human. Real men will admit that they cry. It is my hope that men who are taught that crying makes them less than a man read these testimonies and realize that those who contributed to this book are definitely REAL MEN!  To the men listed below, I thank you. I salute and applaud you for your testimonies and your honesty. 

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MEN CRY TOO

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